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Make:NIKON CORPORATION
Model:NIKON D70
Shutter Speed:10/1250 second
Aperture:F/1.8
Focal Length:50 mm
Date Taken:Oct 30, 2011, 7:00:26 PM
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Victims Of A Dreamby ~BlackJack0919

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The Concept:

When I went to see the Vietnamese movie "Lost Paradise" ( [link] ) , I like it . The movie tells a story of a gay boy who go from the country to the city because he heard that the city was a paradise . But the fact is he run away from his hometown because his parents found out he was gay .

On my way home , I kept on thinking about "Perfect-Expectation" , when a Women pregnant , she Automatically dream about her perfect future , with her perfect sons/ Daughters and visualize her own family. A Family where the son will marry a Women , the Daughter will marry a Man . It's a common thought and everyone do it because it's their rights to dream.

But then one day, they found out their sons and daughters are gays and lesbians. They will be devastated and will start to find a solution, some will even kick their children out of the house because they can't bear the thoughts of their children is not Perfect. ??? And the family break apart.

I have seen such families did that. But, who do they have to blame ?? Whose Fault is it ?? It's nobody's fault.

The one thing that we should need to know is " Sex is one of the most mysterious thing on Earth, one of the magical ones, and it chooses us " , no one can choose what sex they want. We were born that way and we accept that. And our lives , is all about Acceptance. But we can choose to be happy or not. If we say that Sex is never an Option , then Gay or Straight is the same, we can choose not to live a lie or run in the shadow forever.

People don't want to hurt the ones they love, just to think that someone have to say "MOM, DAD, I'M GAY!!" and break their parents' hearts because their expectations with their sons and daughter was too high. It's a said thing.

I couldn't help but wonder , Are we all just victims of a dream ???

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Sorry for the terrible article

I was in over my head tonight so I can't think straight ~__~

* Camera: Nikon D70 + Nikkor 50mm f/1.8D + Fluorescent color balance.

* Editing Process: Photoshop8 CS . Increased contrast using level . That's all

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~MidgardYggdrasil Oct 11, 2012

I love the Idea! good job ^^

~siathedragon Aug 15, 2012 Hobbyist Digital Artist

awesome heres a story

once i was sad because i thougt i would never find the love of my life and i was talking abuet it whit my mom and sometime later she said/yelled "mabye your a lesbian

" at first i was like wtf ,but now im just happy to know that no matter if like boys or girls my family will love and care for me , i always had an understanding family :.D